rich4161
Basics
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Location:
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I am looking for:Woman
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Zip Code:97338
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Age:63
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Height:6 ft. 2 in.
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Body:Average
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Ethnicity:White
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Education:Bachelors Degree
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Job:Engineering
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Has Kids:Yes, living elsewhere
ABOUT
My friends would say I am extremely trustworthy... a man of my word... but almost to a fault... as the one who follows through long after many have quit... in my strive to truly make a difference for others! I have been so blessed this lifetime... as my decades in the Fire Service provided such incredible opportunity... promoting to Lieutenant at age 25... Fire Captain/Acting Chief at 32... as a dual Firefighter/Peace Officer [PIG... IN HEAT! - that's supposed to make you smile!]
...as I do my best to continue this pursuit every day I am blessed on this amazing planet we call earth... all for the unknown ADVENTURE, the good and the bad that keeps in all in balance, available to us all!
I recently took the Jungian/Myers-Briggs Personality Type test: I am an "ESTJ" - I am considered (“THE EXECUTIVE”) ...with all the "issues" a typical CEO encounters... long hours in my man-cave... distancing when working out major issues... etc., etc., but with the biggest, loving heart and soul who I promise will show you in a million ways I can make you feel like the only woman on the planet when we are together!
I normally write a novel at this point, but I will attempt to keep it short in that you will find me a true romantic on many levels... fully understanding all five love languages... but not so much as to how they dictate our compatibility... but rather the awareness to apply the necessary effort we must engage in the work of enhancing any relationship. ...the easier ...the BETTER!
I have read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" more than once. The last as a much-needed refresher course! ...as we SO do not communicate in the same language! For again is the opportunity of mastery so available to us all!
Professionally, I am a small business owner, twice patented inventor (fire and rescue equipment), presently filing my copyright for a world's first ever Fire Engine Pump Pressure Calculator [Slide-Rule and Phone App] with patents three and four on their way. I am currently a Haz-Mat and Confined Space Entry instructor, and now a Confined Space Rescue Technician for a company based in Portland that produces part-time work for me to supplement my medical retirement benefits through the PNW. Oh, and I was a featured artist at my city art center for an entire month of June in 2011. Blah, blah, blah, to just mention a few irons I have in the fire.
Please know, I will never pressure you nor have any expectation beyond what you and I choose to engage. I will respect your boundaries at every turn but also balance the need for me to take the lead where you demand in that the buck stops here with me. You will always be as free tomorrow as you were yesterday... until that time comes, of course, we desire exclusivity that truly unlocks doors to our intimacy on levels we can only ever hope to achieve.
It's either a home run! ...or not at all. And that is totally okay with me! As not everyone is meant to be together... but maybe for a season at best... as we then become only that much closer to finding the one who is most compatible on every level you and I desire.
So with that, if I may invite you to simply follow your heart, consider engaging in a simple text conversation... but do please quickly escalate to our first phone call as the emotion with each word exchanged is critical in knowing if we have any spark at all. Again, which is totally okay! But if I don't have you laughing in nearly every exchange... I am clearly NOT doing my job!
Whoops... that is kinda of a novel!
What I am looking for
I am looking for that All-American girl next door who truly gets who she is... what she wants... and knows she will never settle ever again in hopes of changing someone who was never cut out for her in the first place.
I am SO GUILTY of trying the same futile tactics time and time again so many years ago!
No more... but especially since I now fully respect that it is ALWAYS the lady who chooses her man... to let us dumb asses into her heart... and literally... in that I will never pressure a lady than to ever do more than simply follow her own God-given instincts... incredible sense of intuition... to simply click I am interested! ...or NEXT!!! ...as I know my attraction to her can never be allowed to be more than her attraction to me... if we stop as mere acquaintances... "If it is so... then so bit it"
But if we choose more... bring it on babe! Every day is but a blessing to learn and discover ever more on the incredible journey this world is created to produce for our human experience!
And the idiot who wrote the song, "Feels like the first time!" ...could have only been a guy! ...as every lady knows, with each encounter she becomes more and more confident to be more and more free... to be that vulnerable... TO BE HER ABSOLUTE WHOLE AND COMPLETE LOVING SELF! ...but only upon the time that will reveal just how powerful our connection may be to achieve levels of intimacy that only a very small few ever even dream about.
Teach me the real 'who' in who you truly are as we discover more with each passing day! Life is but a GIFT!!!
Tag! You're IT! ...but only if you invite me!
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